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Caregiver Respite: 4 ways to make time for yourself

Caregiver Respite: 4 ways to make time for yourself

Caregiver Respite: 4 ways to make time for yourself

Are you a caregiver for a senior loved one? If so, you probably focus on that person throughout much of your day (and night). Their needs, wants and wishes may come first. Are they too hot or too cold? Are they comfortable? Hungry? Are they drinking enough water? What can I do to increase their physical or mental strength?  These are all valid concerns.

But what about YOU?  What are your needs, wants and wishes?  What about your physical and mental strength? Your days are long; sometimes you feel like you had a 32-hour day. It is as important for caregivers to take time for themselves as it is for them to care for the ones they love. If you are not at your best, physically or mentally, it will be harder for you to take care of them.

Here are 4 ways you can energize your body and spirit. Pick one and start today:
  • caregiver-respiteWorkout. Go to a gym, park or even just around the neighborhood. Whether you walk, run, or lift weights, exercise is important to keep you feeling good, both physically and mentally. Schedule the time, like any other appointment, to get it done on a regular basis. Start with 10 minutes. Start today. There is a personal trainer three doors west of our Center.
  • Schedule a spa day. It’s nice to take your loved one to get her nails or hair done so she feels better about herself. But what about you? Take time once-in-a-while to get a mani/pedi, massage, facial or other spa service. Why? treatment-caregiver-respite-1327811_300Just because! Go somewhere calm and relaxing and let the troubles of the day just melt away, even for a little while. You’ll come out feeling refreshed! There is a Mario Tricoci 150 feet from our Center.
  • Have a hobby. You think, “How can I have a hobby when I have my kids and husband to take care of, plus being a caregiver for my loved one (and possibly a job too)?” It could be as easy as regularly getting a new book from the library or more time-consuming as taking a class. The point is that you are learning something and growing. This is about you, not your family or co-workers. If you take part in something you enjoy, you will be more engaged mentally. There is an antique store five doors west of our Center; lots of cool items to look at as you enjoy some me-time.
  • restaurant-caregiver-respite-690975_300Spend time with friends. We stress the importance of socialization for seniors. It helps to improve their attitude, reduces the risk of mental health issues like depression, and lowers blood pressure. The same is true for their caregivers. You spend a lot of time taking care of your loved one, but you also need time to be social with your friends. Have lunch, meet for drinks, or do one of the above items with a friend. It’s important for you to socialize with people outside of your family! Some of our favorite spots include Crosstown Pub & Grill, Sullivan’s, Top Golf and Ogden 6 Movie Theater (inexpensive and THE best popcorn on earth).

Make sure you take time for yourself!

Not only is it hard being a caregiver, it is also hard to take time for yourself when you are caring for a senior loved one. That is one of the reasons Naperville Senior Center is here; to create a ‘home away from home’ for your senior loved one AND give the caregiver, you, time to yourself. Whether you need time to run errands, work in the garden, catch up on chores, be more productive at work, get to the gym, take a class or just take a nap, we provide a safe, fun environment for our Members.

Each day our Members spend time socializing, verbalizing, improvising, evangelizing, visualizing, exercising, having fun, and a host of other activities to provide mental and physical stimulation.

Call to action: to learn more about how NSC can provide a respite for you and a great social environment for your loved one, contact us at 630.857.3017. You can also schedule a tour to see what we have to offer and understand the Naperville Senior Center experience, “Home Away From Home.”

Surpassed my expectations

"Thank you for taking care of my wife Judy during this difficult time. You and your staff have exceedingly surpassed my expectations. Judy seems to be much happier after becoming a member of your facility. I feel at peace knowing that she is in good hands."

~ David S.

Impressive!

"The tour of the facility was quite impressive! Great staff, warm environment."

~ Lorie C, Lisle.

Such a positive focus

"There is such a positive focus in here. A great family owned and operated business with lots of care for those who can't stay home safely."

~ Wanda S. Naperville

A warm caring environment

"Once you take the free trial, you will be convinced that this is the place for your loved one. Both physical and mental activities are provided in a warm caring environment."

~John A, Naperville

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NAPERVILLE SENIOR CENTER, ADULT DAY SERVICES
1504 N Naper Blvd Suite 120
Naperville, IL 60563
(630) 857-3017 info@napervilleseniorcenter.com

Our Location

Naperville Senior Center, Adult Day Services is located at the corner of Naperville Blvd. & Ogden Avenue - right on the border of Lisle and Naperville.

Our facility’s ideal location provides easy access for employed family members to drop off or pick up their spouses or elderly family members.

ADULT SERVICES FREE TRIAL LIMITED TIME OFFER

Please fill out this form below or call us at (630) 857-3017

Naperville Adult Day Care

Free TRIAL is for new Members and their caregiver.

 

The trial visit is Monday-Friday from 11:00 am to 2:00 pm.
Tour our adult day services facility.
Observe some fun activities. Join us for lunch. Learn more at our Senior Adult Day Care center FREE TRIAL
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Love is in the Air

Love is in the Air

Love is in the Air

By Mike Cooper

heart-598048_640As the song goes, “Love is in the air, in the whisper of the trees. Love is in the air, in the thunder of the sea.” As we close in on Valentine’s Day this Sunday, there are many things pink and red in stores, on television and in ads. Retailers want you to believe that your loved one will love you more with a card, candy, jewelry, or dinner out.

I’m not suggesting that you skip getting your loved ones those things (my sweetie may see one or more of those), but what can you do for others, even strangers, that would make their day?

Here are a few suggestions:

  • Pay it forward. When you go through a drive-thru, pay for the person’s coffee or meal in the car behind you. You have no idea how a small gesture like that can brighten someone’s day. If they do it for the next car, you will have started a trend to brighten the day for a lot of people.
  • Shovel someone’s driveway. Whether an older person lives next to you or someone younger, shovel their drive when it snows just because. Right now the forecast calls for snow on Valentine’s Day; what better way to brighten someone’s day than clearing the snow for them.
  • Make a meal for someone who can’t get out. Do you know an older adult who doesn’t go out much (or at all) or just someone who is sick or struggling? Make a meal and deliver it to them. If you are delivering to an older adult, make sure to have clear instructions on it for reheating. A hot meal can really warm the spirit! Better yet, invite them over for dinner.
  • Make a call. Is there a relative or friend you haven’t talked to in a while (especially someone older)? (I mean really talked to, not just a post on Facebook.) Pick up the phone and call them. They would love to hear from you, just to know that someone is thinking of them. Ask them about a favorite Valentine memory.

Valentine’s Day doesn’t have to cost a fortune; you can make someone’s day in small ways. Just give it some thought.

Naperville Senior Center provides a warm, safe environment for your loved one when they can’t safely be on their own during the day. We provide them with a hot, noontime meal and the socialization to keep them from being lonely. Your loved one is truly our loved one.

Members are welcome to be as independent as they can safely be while they are with us. In fact, one of our Members drives himself to our center! He could go anywhere he wants, but due to the socialization and other cool things, he chooses to come here a few days a week. In addition to socialization, we encourage exercise, games and puzzles, singing, clapping, dancing, computer time and a host of other activities to provide mental and physical stimulation for our Members.

Call to action: contact us to schedule a FREE 3-hour trial at our facility so you can see what we have to offer and understand the Naperville Senior Center experience, “Home Away From Home”.

Surpassed my expectations

"Thank you for taking care of my wife Judy during this difficult time. You and your staff have exceedingly surpassed my expectations. Judy seems to be much happier after becoming a member of your facility. I feel at peace knowing that she is in good hands."

~ David S.

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Impressive!

"The tour of the facility was quite impressive! Great staff, warm environment."

~ Lorie C, Lisle.

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Such a positive focus

"There is such a positive focus in here. A great family owned and operated business with lots of care for those who can't stay home safely."

~ Wanda S. Naperville

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A warm caring environment

"Once you take the free trial, you will be convinced that this is the place for your loved one. Both physical and mental activities are provided in a warm caring environment."

~John A, Naperville

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Contact Us

(630) 857-3017


NAPERVILLE SENIOR CENTER, ADULT DAY SERVICES
1504 N Naper Blvd Suite 120
Naperville, IL 60563
(630) 857-3017 info@napervilleseniorcenter.com

Our Location

Naperville Senior Center, Adult Day Services is located at the corner of Naperville Blvd. & Ogden Avenue - right on the border of Lisle and Naperville.

Our facility’s ideal location provides easy access for employed family members to drop off or pick up their spouses or elderly family members.

ADULT SERVICES FREE TRIAL LIMITED TIME OFFER

Please fill out this form below or call us at (630) 857-3017

Naperville Adult Day Care

Free TRIAL is for new Members and their caregiver.

 

The trial visit is Monday-Friday from 11:00 am to 2:00 pm.
Tour our adult day services facility.
Observe some fun activities. Join us for lunch. Learn more at our Senior Adult Day Care center FREE TRIAL
Receive Peace of Mind.
*** No obligation! ***

Learn more about Naperville Senior Citizen services and upcoming events.

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5 Things You Should Do Now to Stay Healthy in Your Senior Years

5 Things You Should Do Now to Stay Healthy in Your Senior Years

5 Things You Should Do Now to Stay Healthy in Your Senior Years

Senior Health

Wouldn’t it be great if we could take a sip from the fountain of youth and not have to worry about getting older? But like the song (and Bible verse) goes, to everything there is a season. Every day we get a little older, but we don’t have to go down without a fight!  Senior Health

There may not be that magical fountain of youth, but there are a variety of things we can do at any age to help ourselves be healthy and happy in our senior years. Whether you are 45 or 65 years old, little changes to what you do, what you eat and your outlook on life can make a big difference.

Here are 5 things you should do now to stay healthy as you age:

  1. It takes 21 days to create a habit. Start by doing something small – walking for 5 minutes – and build on it over time. We all have to start somewhere. Like the slogan says, ‘Just do it.’positive-455580_1280
  2. Be consistent. If you do take that walk, do it at the same time on the same days of the week. Being repetitive will help create that habit and have it stick over time.
  3. Be positive. Research has shown that positive thinking can help you feel better longer. You have a choice to react positively or negatively to any situation; choose to be positive!
  4. fruits-386758_1280Eat well most of the time. We all have our ‘favorites’ – cookies, candy, ice cream, chips and dip. That’s okay once-in-a-while; but spend most of the time eating foods that are good FOR you, not just good. It’s all about moderation; your body will thank you for it. Senior Health Tips
  5. Be social. Humans are social creatures and crave interaction with others. So get out there and be social. You can get involved with your church, community groups, or senior centers, like Naperville Senior Center.

Aging is inevitable, but there are a variety of things we can do to help our bodies and minds age more slowly than our years. However, if your aging loved one needs to be in a safe environment with other seniors during the day, check out what Naperville Senior Center has to offer.

Contact us to schedule a FREE 3-hour trial at our facility so you can see what we have to offer and understand the Naperville Senior Center experience, Home Away From Home.

Would you like more information about how Naperville Senior Center can provide your loved ones with the warmth, care and comforts of home for just the day? Click here to keep informed by joining our mailing list.

 

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Surpassed my expectations

"Thank you for taking care of my wife Judy during this difficult time. You and your staff have exceedingly surpassed my expectations. Judy seems to be much happier after becoming a member of your facility. I feel at peace knowing that she is in good hands."

~ David S.

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Impressive!

"The tour of the facility was quite impressive! Great staff, warm environment."

~ Lorie C, Lisle.

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Such a positive focus

"There is such a positive focus in here. A great family owned and operated business with lots of care for those who can't stay home safely."

~ Wanda S. Naperville

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A warm caring environment

"Once you take the free trial, you will be convinced that this is the place for your loved one. Both physical and mental activities are provided in a warm caring environment."

~John A, Naperville

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Contact Us

(630) 857-3017


NAPERVILLE SENIOR CENTER, ADULT DAY SERVICES
1504 N Naper Blvd Suite 120
Naperville, IL 60563
(630) 857-3017 info@napervilleseniorcenter.com

Our Location

Naperville Senior Center, Adult Day Services is located at the corner of Naperville Blvd. & Ogden Avenue - right on the border of Lisle and Naperville.

Our facility’s ideal location provides easy access for employed family members to drop off or pick up their spouses or elderly family members.

ADULT SERVICES FREE TRIAL LIMITED TIME OFFER

Please fill out this form below or call us at (630) 857-3017

Naperville Adult Day Care

Free TRIAL is for new Members and their caregiver.

 

The trial visit is Monday-Friday from 11:00 am to 2:00 pm.
Tour our adult day services facility.
Observe some fun activities. Join us for lunch. Learn more at our Senior Adult Day Care center FREE TRIAL
Receive Peace of Mind.
*** No obligation! ***

Learn more about Naperville Senior Citizen services and upcoming events.

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3 Ways to Have Fun While Exercising to Keep Warm in the Winter

3 Ways to Have Fun While Exercising to Keep Warm in the Winter

3 Ways to Have Fun While Exercising to Keep Warm in the Winter

Winter in the northern United States means it is cold, wet and dreary. The furnace is running and we are layered up to stay warm. We prefer soup and hot drinks instead of the cool ones of summer. It doesn’t paint pretty picture, does it?

During these cold winter months, our focus is on staying warm – warm clothes, warm food, warm drinks, warm homes. But there is another way to stay warm without having to bundle up and crank up the heat. It’s called exercise. I know…that dreaded E-word! But exercise does not have to seem like a chore. It can be fun, entertaining and enjoyable if you want it to be.

In addition, when people finish exercising, they tend to have a positive attitude; they feel good about what they have accomplished. Exercising not only helps your body, but it can help your mind and your spirit too! In fact, according to Heidi Godman, Executive Editor, Harvard Health Letter, “Regular exercise changes the brain to improve memory, thinking skills.” With new cases of dementia being identified every four seconds, you are doing your brain, as well as your body, a favor.

I hear you asking, “But Mike, where’s the ‘fun, entertaining and enjoyable’ part?” There are a few ways to make exercise fun!

Here are 3 ways to have fun while exercising to keep warm this winter:

  • Dance. You don’t have to know how to tango or jive to dance. Just turn on the radio or your playlist and groove to whatever music you enjoy. After you get your feet moving, your arms are next. Suddenly you’re dancing, enjoying yourself, and yes, exercising! Instead of watching TV every night, crank up some smooth jazz, grab your partner and dance around the first floor of your house. You’ll both me smiling and spending some quality time together.
  • Play Wii. There are many Wii games you can play which will increase your heart rate. Baseball, tennis, boxing, even bowling! You are moving your whole body – arms, legs and core. Is it the same as doing those sports for real? No. But if you want your senior loved one to get some exercise, it may be exactly what they need. In addition, if they are doing it with someone else, they are getting the social interaction they need as well.
  • Walk, Skip, Jump. Remember how much fun you had skipping down the street when you were a kid. You would jump over cracks or puddles in the sidewalk. Life was carefree back then. What is holding you back now? You may not skip down the street, but you could jump rope (even if you don’t have a jump rope in your hand). Skipping in place or around your house or yard would get your heart rate up too. If you or your senior loved one can’t skip or jump, walking is good for you too. Everybody should walk at least 10 minutes a day. If you don’t have a walking track, walk around the house… down the hall, through the kitchen, through the dining room, down the hall… repeat.
  • Do Yoga. Yoga helps improve muscle tone and strength, flexibility and posture. It also helps to reduce stress and improve your mood. Seniors can do chair yoga in order to get the benefits in a safer environment.

Our Members have fun!

At Naperville Senior Center we do all of these things to keep our Members active, alert and happy so they can have fun. We not only want them to feel like we are their ‘home away from home’ but we want them to have more fun here! At home they might not get the chance to dance, play Wii sports or walk around. They might not otherwise have the kind of comradery they get with other Members and our staff throughout the day. We are thrilled that they can get that kind of physical, mental and social stimulation while they are with us!

Call to action: to learn more about how NSC can provide a respite for you and a great social environment for your loved one where they can have fun, contact us at 630.857.3017. You can also schedule a tour to see what we have to offer and understand the Naperville Senior Center experience, “Home Away From Home.

Surpassed my expectations

"Thank you for taking care of my wife Judy during this difficult time. You and your staff have exceedingly surpassed my expectations. Judy seems to be much happier after becoming a member of your facility. I feel at peace knowing that she is in good hands."

~ David S.

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Impressive!

"The tour of the facility was quite impressive! Great staff, warm environment."

~ Lorie C, Lisle.

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Such a positive focus

"There is such a positive focus in here. A great family owned and operated business with lots of care for those who can't stay home safely."

~ Wanda S. Naperville

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A warm caring environment

"Once you take the free trial, you will be convinced that this is the place for your loved one. Both physical and mental activities are provided in a warm caring environment."

~John A, Naperville

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Contact Us

(630) 857-3017


NAPERVILLE SENIOR CENTER, ADULT DAY SERVICES
1504 N Naper Blvd Suite 120
Naperville, IL 60563
(630) 857-3017 info@napervilleseniorcenter.com

Our Location

Naperville Senior Center, Adult Day Services is located at the corner of Naperville Blvd. & Ogden Avenue - right on the border of Lisle and Naperville.

Our facility’s ideal location provides easy access for employed family members to drop off or pick up their spouses or elderly family members.

ADULT SERVICES FREE TRIAL LIMITED TIME OFFER

Please fill out this form below or call us at (630) 857-3017

Naperville Adult Day Care

Free TRIAL is for new Members and their caregiver.

 

The trial visit is Monday-Friday from 11:00 am to 2:00 pm.
Tour our adult day services facility.
Observe some fun activities. Join us for lunch. Learn more at our Senior Adult Day Care center FREE TRIAL
Receive Peace of Mind.
*** No obligation! ***

Learn more about Naperville Senior Citizen services and upcoming events.

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What do the Loyola Chicago Men’s Basketball Team and Easter Have in Common?

What do the Loyola Chicago Men’s Basketball Team and Easter Have in Common?

What do the Loyola Chicago Men’s Basketball Team and Easter Have in Common?

In a word, faith.

It has been a pleasure to watch the Loyola Ramblers in the NCAA Tournament over the last couple of weekends. They have been the underdog in each game, yet they continue to win – four games and counting. My Dad even texted after the third win, “Your team did it again!” It is very exciting!

But what has been most enjoyable is seeing how these young men act on and off the court. Not one of them has tried to take credit for a win. They seem to believe that, win or lose, they will do it as a team. In this day and age when there seems to be a couple players on many teams who want to soak up the glory, these team members are humble.

It’s all about Sister Jean!

In fact, the real story of the NCAA Tournament has been Sister Jean, the Loyola Ramblers’ 89-year-old chaplain. She is with them before, during and after each game. The team members greet her, look for her words of encouragement and show her great respect. I’m not saying that other teams wouldn’t show an elderly woman some respect, but it is how the players on this team interact with her that is so wonderful to see.

There are two games left in the tournament. I am confident that when they practice this week for their Saturday matchup against Michigan, they fully believe they can win. Why? Because they have faith – in themselves, their teammates, coaches, Sister Jean and God. They trust that they will do their best – together – to win.

That is what Easter is all about – having faith that Jesus rose from the dead. Faith isn’t always easy. Even the apostle, Thomas, didn’t believe. That is where the term “doubting Thomas” came from. But we work at faith each day in many areas of our lives.

What do I have faith in as we enter Holy Week?

  • I have faith in my wife. She is my rock and my strength. We have been through so much together, and we know the best is yet to come.
  • I have faith in my children. They have grown up to be remarkable adults. I can’t wait to see what they each do next. I am so proud of them.
  • I have faith in God. He, too, is my rock. When I finally gave my will and my life up to His care, miraculous things happened. I enthusiastically look forward to each day knowing something good will happen. Like the Ramblers, I will do my best.

faithAs you color eggs with your children, take out the good china, and celebrate Easter with your family remember why we celebrate. Our God is an awesome God.  And remember to say a little prayer for the Loyola Chicago Ramblers; Sister Jean could use all the help she can get!

Happy Easter!

Surpassed my expectations

"Thank you for taking care of my wife Judy during this difficult time. You and your staff have exceedingly surpassed my expectations. Judy seems to be much happier after becoming a member of your facility. I feel at peace knowing that she is in good hands."

~ David S.

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Impressive!

"The tour of the facility was quite impressive! Great staff, warm environment."

~ Lorie C, Lisle.

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Such a positive focus

"There is such a positive focus in here. A great family owned and operated business with lots of care for those who can't stay home safely."

~ Wanda S. Naperville

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A warm caring environment

"Once you take the free trial, you will be convinced that this is the place for your loved one. Both physical and mental activities are provided in a warm caring environment."

~John A, Naperville

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Contact Us

(630) 857-3017


NAPERVILLE SENIOR CENTER, ADULT DAY SERVICES
1504 N Naper Blvd Suite 120
Naperville, IL 60563
(630) 857-3017 info@napervilleseniorcenter.com

Our Location

Naperville Senior Center, Adult Day Services is located at the corner of Naperville Blvd. & Ogden Avenue - right on the border of Lisle and Naperville.

Our facility’s ideal location provides easy access for employed family members to drop off or pick up their spouses or elderly family members.

ADULT SERVICES FREE TRIAL LIMITED TIME OFFER

Please fill out this form below or call us at (630) 857-3017

Naperville Adult Day Care

Free TRIAL is for new Members and their caregiver.

 

The trial visit is Monday-Friday from 11:00 am to 2:00 pm.
Tour our adult day services facility.
Observe some fun activities. Join us for lunch. Learn more at our Senior Adult Day Care center FREE TRIAL
Receive Peace of Mind.
*** No obligation! ***

Learn more about Naperville Senior Citizen services and upcoming events.

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